{"id":9266,"date":"2019-02-14T12:27:59","date_gmt":"2019-02-14T12:27:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/?p=9266"},"modified":"2019-02-14T12:27:59","modified_gmt":"2019-02-14T12:27:59","slug":"gradually-gradually","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/?p=9266","title":{"rendered":"Gradually&nbsp;Gradually"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tuesday 12th February 2019<\/p>\n<p>Despite everything I have been alive, although sinking with ease into wild despair, the guy ropes giving out. January, especially without mineral interests &#8211; what is there to live for but Her colour on a Sunday morning for Dringham church? My God, she was in camel! Totally new. But I wish I knew why she can&#8217;t have a winter coat like everybody else. The thick wool done over into a Royal dress coat as if it were duchesse satin looks all wrong. \u00a0Now suddenly with the Spring-like days (although too soon, too soon), insomnia falls away and the spirits revive. I&#8217;ve forked for Glyndebourniana although crazy (the lack of funds! the taxman!) Just two Glyndebournianas though. Economising. Oh and a little Cosi at the Garden. But no clothes at all.<\/p>\n<p>Friends have flocked round and prevented me from blowing away entirely. One is held down by so little really. Harry Rollo and Mercury Mr Kitten dined. Harry loves the birds and knows them all. Mercury Mr Kitten gave me a picture he&#8217;d self-made and it&#8217;s superb. A restaurant scene with three chandeliers and 19 diners all in different intriguing states of hair, face and frockage. It&#8217;s partly collage. Incredible technique. The next day Harry came round in person bearing a copy of James Pope-Hennessy&#8217;s \u00a0<em>The<\/em>\u00a0<em>Quest of Queen Mary.\u00a0<\/em>The actual biog of Her Late Majesty Queen Mary was my prep school reading entirely and so many have been saying for ever that surely surely I&#8217;ve read <em>The\u00a0Quest<\/em>, which is James P-H&#8217;s secret notes while researching of raving brilliance, only just published. Well, I devoured: his weekend with the Windsors, his weekend with the Gloucesters, the visit to the Wurtemburgs, or Princess Xenia at Kew. The thing is he liked them all but still is merciless. Royalty are not human beings, that is the essential thing, even when not born Royal. They are another species altogether. \u00a0The Duke of Gloucester had to have his hand at Scrabble played by someone else, hated it, then suddenly was a demon at the board. The Duchess thought that group gardening would make James P-H feel comfortable so they trooped off and kind of looked at a cotoneaster that needed tying back, made quite a lot of mess before the Duchess said, &#8216;I think we&#8217;ll leave it now.&#8217; Meanwhile Alice Athlone, Queen Victoria&#8217;s last grand-daughter, also staying, was dead-heading the irises in a similar manner. Their gardening was just like Royal tree-planting with a ceremonial spade. Presumably they thought that all gardening was like that. Over at the Windsors&#8217; place in Normandy, he found the the Duke &#8216;well-arranged&#8217; by his valet, while the Duchess \u00a0&#8216;was flat and angular and could have been designed for a medieval playing card.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Merle Barr suggested a winter outing to the Winter Lights at Canary Wharf. Quite magical. You wouldn&#8217;t think of Canary Wharf as a fairy place, but when the tall buildings are lit up at night it is. Just great banks of lights all around with the items in the actual light show intermittently occurring. We liked the animal silhouettes pacing along a wall and the Chinese lanterns floating in the water. There was such a plunge of temperature while we were there. I was shivering. On our return Merle announced that she&#8217;d got a massive vat of cauliflower curry to be eaten up. Just the thing.<\/p>\n<p>I went to Cley in Norfolk for the weekend. Carole Vaux invited me to her newly-built Tudor holiday home of splendour. From the windows we saw a curlew and on the beach a baby seal was beached. Seal-carers were in the offing, it was said, so don&#8217;t worry. Roxanne General whirled in. She should be studied. Now in charge of 32 schools, running and stretching everyday, well over 60, looks about 35 if a day. She only stayed one night: had other calls to make on friends in Northampton and Welshpool before returning to her woodland home near Denham. Carole said, &#8216;If you talk to me about eyes, I&#8217;ll faint.&#8217; When she had to have an eye procedure, the eye doctor was lavish with special treatment. Both she and Lawrence had their hips resurfaced years before the procedure was at all well-known. In retirement, Lawrence is making porridge and has exercise machines in the garage. Actual running out of doors does not appeal. He has a number of non-execs to attend to. I&#8217;d like to have a few non-execs. I wonder if it can be arranged. Next door to this Cley home lives Normal-for-Norfolk&#8217;s ex, who must have divorced well. V. good independent dower house in small grounds. She&#8217;s now making tweed jackets and Lawrence has got one. Back at their house in Bucks, Carole and Lawrence sometimes see Mary Berry in Waitrose. Carole did an imitation of all the necks stretching in the check-out queue towards her trolley.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_9269\" style=\"width: 573px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9269\" class=\"size-large wp-image-9269\" src=\"http:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4971-563x750.jpg\" alt=\"Baby Seal Stranded at Cley \" width=\"563\" height=\"750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4971-563x750.jpg 563w, https:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4971-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4971-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 563px) 100vw, 563px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-9269\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Baby Seal Stranded at Cley<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_9270\" style=\"width: 573px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9270\" class=\"size-large wp-image-9270\" src=\"http:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4974-563x750.jpg\" alt=\"Beach at Cley:  Sensational Bleak \" width=\"563\" height=\"750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4974-563x750.jpg 563w, https:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4974-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4974-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 563px) 100vw, 563px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-9270\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Beach at Cley: Sensational Bleak<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_9268\" style=\"width: 573px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9268\" class=\"size-large wp-image-9268\" src=\"http:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4998-563x750.jpg\" alt=\"One of the Winter Light Displays at Canary Wharf \" width=\"563\" height=\"750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4998-563x750.jpg 563w, https:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4998-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/poorlittlerichgays.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_4998-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 563px) 100vw, 563px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-9268\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">One of the Winter Light Displays at Canary Wharf<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tuesday 12th February 2019 Despite everything I have been alive, although sinking with ease into wild despair, the guy ropes giving out. January, especially without mineral interests &#8211; what is there to live for but Her colour on a Sunday morning for Dringham church? My God, she was in camel! Totally new. 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